When Fixing Isn’t an Option

When Fixing Isn’t an Option

What powerlessness is trying to teach us  There are moments in life when nothing you do seems to make a difference. You can think about it, talk about it, try to fix it from every angle—and still, it stays exactly the same. It’s that feeling when there’s nothing left...
Thinking Hard Without Thinking Dark

Thinking Hard Without Thinking Dark

The fine line between realism and pessimism Last night, my husband and I were talking about optimism. I shared how much I admire his ability to hold optimism even in challenging situations—something I struggle with and wanted his perspective on. He gently pointed out,...
Optimism After Realism

Optimism After Realism

What becomes possible when the story we tell ourselves gets bigger.  Last month I wrote about how realism can slowly begin to mimic pessimism. The mind becomes so practiced at noticing what could go wrong that it begins to assume that is simply how things will go....

Breathing into Your Emotions I often recommend to my clients the practice of “breathing into your body and noticing what you are feeling.” This simple yet powerful technique allows us to dive deeper into our emotions and understand them on a more profound...